About The SexSkits Project
Sexual roleplaying is a sexual behavior between two or more people in which they take on erotic roles to carry out a sexual fantasy. The depth of the role play depends on the couple, and the scenario may be anywhere from simple and makeshift, to detailed and elaborate, complete with costumes and a script. Unfortunately, there are not many resources out there for couples wishing to start out in sexual role play, but don't know where to start...until now. Introducing SexSkits.
When we were children, our play was only bound only by our imaginations. But as we became adults, we somehow lost touch with our imaginative streak when it comes to playing with others, especially in intimate moments with our lovers. This is where SexSkits comes in to play. SexSkits give us a script to follow and the ability to pretend that we are someone else, and our lover is someone else, all in the safety and privacy of our own bedrooms. And because SexSkits have been specifically designed and written with intimate play in mind, they are easy to learn and follow, so no matter how shy or uncomfortable we may feel at the moment, we can work through those temporary feelings to a moment of shared orgasmic bliss with our partners through sexual role play.
Sexual roles can be very general designated as power positions, sometimes abstracted to "top" and "bottom," or can be very specific and detailed fantasies. Nearly any role could become the base material for an erotic experience, and there is no limit to what objects an individual could consider erotic. Many of the most common sexual role plays involve a power differential.
One of the attractions of having fantasies during lovemaking (even when your fantasy lover is actually your current partner, as often happens) is that they're right beside you, and they know just what to do to make you feel good. Another benefit is that you can enjoy fantasy sex with someone other than your partner without repercussions, because it occurs solely in your mind. Fantasy gives you an outlet for all of the wild, lustful things that you've always wanted to do. You might be really turned on, for example, by the thought of doing it with your spouse in a convertible in the mall parking lot on a sunny Sunday afternoon. Chances are you're not going to try this one out for real, but you can go full speed ahead in living out your fantasies in a controlled environment, such as the privacy of your own home.
Sexual role play takes the fantasy a big step further, and because your loving partner is an active participant, it takes a great deal of trust, understanding and commitment. This is the true core power of a SexSkit, for it leads you and your partner on a fantastic, intimate and sexual fantasy ride, that if handled properly (as we will instruct you in the After-play & Post Production Notes sections of each SexSkit), it is bound to expand the horizons of your mutual sexuality and strengthen your relationship, both inside and outside of the bedroom. And SexSkits are relatively easy to use, and can be mastered within a few days prior to your steamy sexual roleplay together. All SexSkits include Bookmarks to help you and your lover stay on cue throughout the course of your SexSkit, suggested positions that have been determined to go best with that particular roleplay scenario, and Alternative scenes that can assist you and your partner modify the SexSkit to your individual tastes and desires.
SexSkits are designed and written to be stand-alone scripts intended for committed couples who wish to engage in sexual role-play activities. Each SexSkit contains a listing of the characters and their roles, the genre and sub-genre of the SexSkit, character development, costume design, scene development, Alternative Action suggestions, Bookmarks should the participants get lost within the script, sexual positions, and of course, the script itself. We developed SexSkits to help committed couples explore the sexuality of their relationship in a healthy manner, while also enhancing the level of excitement that these couples may bring to bear on their intimate moments together.
SexSkits are written for committed couples who wish to shed the everyday routine in their sexual relations, and branch out in experimentation in terms of adopting different personnas, exercising different values and morals, experiencing activities that may be considered taboo or otherwise outside of the mainstream, or to overcome inhibitions. SexSkits, when properly used, can be powerful tools to enhance the sexual lives of the participants. Each SexSkit contains a powerful conflict that once resolved, leads to sexual satisfaction. However, the resolution of that conflict may lead to both participants questioning the other as to their true wants and desires. It is important to remember that these SexSkits are a vehicle for fantasy, and not reality. Even if the male partner were to have an extramarital affair with a Frenchmaid in the fantasy, it doesn't mean that he will pursue the same option in real life. In the end, the Frenchmaid was his wife, and the happiness that she has imparted to him was from her, and not another woman. The female has the opportunity through the SexSkit to be all women, all the time to her devoted partner. Likewise, the man can be the same for her. It is important for both participants to remember that this is a fantasy that you have agreed to share with one another, and is not an indication of what truly lies in each other's hearts. Committed couples should be prepared to discuss their feelings openly with each other prior to, and after the completion of a SexSkit.
Each SexSkit is developed around a central theme, based on common sexual fantasies that both men and women have. The SexSkit has both a Protagonist (that character who participates in the role play, but must face a "foil", or conflict before consummating the relationship), and an Antagonist, who is the seductive character and poses the conflict to the Protagonist. Each SexSkit uses costumes, props, and settings to establish a realistic feel to the SexSkit for the participants, but are not completely necessary. Many couples may exercise their imaginations when participating in a SexSkit without the props, costumes and setting parameters, and still have a wonderful time. The intent of each SexScript is to create an atmosphere in which both participants and realistically see one another as someone else, and can pretend to be someone else. A high degree of sexual freedom can be generated in both participants when they assume different identities and roles, resulting in fantastic love play. It is important when engaging in a SexSkit for the participants to shed, as much as possible, their true personnas, values, and inhibitions. In this way, a SexSkit can prove to be an invaluable tool for increasing intimacy, overcoming inhibitions, and experimenting in sex with a trusted partner.
For a SexSkit to be truly effective, much preparation should be made beforehand. Both SexSkit participants should have a copy of the SexSkit and should read it several times. It is not absolutely necessary to memorize each and every scripted line, but it helps keep the participants on track throughout the SexSkit. Participants should become very familiar with their character's development, and should take time to assume that personna from time to time in private prior to engaging in the SexSkit. Participants should also use the days before engaging in the SexSkit to assemble all of the costume, accessories and props necessary to complete the SexSkit. SexSkit participants are strongly encouraged to openly review and discuss the SexSkit's Suggested positions, sex actions, and alternative script / actions items, and should agree beforehand that they are willing to participate in the script as written. Participants are free to change the script as they see fit to better accommodate their individual tastes and abilities.